Ben's Birthday/Our Anniversary
In my head, I call it a birthdayversary.
Only in my head, as this is completely not fair to Ben. It’s his birthday and he has to share with me. LOL.
I told him many, many years ago that we could break up for a few months and then get back together and change the date that way?
Ha ha. He didn’t like that idea either. Although I’ve been thinking about it since the end of February. That was when he asked me if he could sleep in my bed that night, and I was sick of sleeping alone so I said yes, with the add on that he had to keep his pants on.
Which he did. But a bit of making out happened in the morning. That time when you’re not even fully awake, but all you know is that someone is doing something nice to your neck? *blush*
We took it very slow for a bit, but then just dove in head first. People were angry, and I guess people had a right to be, but seeing as how we’ve lasted 7 years, I’d like to think it was meant to be and angry people can suck it. =)
This makes year number 7 for us, and I keep waiting to get bored, to get too annoyed, to start making little strikes against him in my head like I’ve done with so many boyfriends in the past. Yet I don’t get to that point.
I’m not sick of him, I feel like I’m in it for the long run at this point. We support each other, we laugh at each other and with each other, we have a very same sense and view of the world and raising a small child in this world. We don’t agree on music, most TV (besides Aqua Teen, but of course Aqua Teen is the awesome), and other things I’m sure.
We don’t always agree, but we always disagree kindly. Kind of. Sometimes I tell him he’s dumb, but I’m always teasing and he obviously isn’t dumb in any way.
In fact, he’s the smartest guy I know. Better at math then me even, which was hard for me at first, but I’ve become used to it.
He’s 29 today, and I keep teasing him about that, it’s easy to do when I’m the younger one.
I guess what I’m really saying is that he’s a keeper and when I think about all the guys I thought I really liked, I’m very happy that I ended up with one who I didn’t even know I liked "that way".
Plus the sex part. That’s good too. LOL.
Actually, I always wonder about that cause someone told me once that you get used to the feel of another person’s body and after awhile it doesn’t feel as good.
Which is a lie in our case. Perhaps I’m just lucky?
And I really like that we seem to have the same libido. Neither of us feels like they aren’t getting enough. I’d average us about every two days, and it seems to work out pretty damn well, if I do say so myself.
Ok, enough with the TMI.
Happy Birthday baby, even though you won’t read this (we don’t agree about MySpace either..LOL), I want to scream it out loud to the world.
We have plans to have dinner on Saturday at the Mission (our favorite Mexican place) and then waddle (SO MUCH FOOD) our way to Paul’s birthday party.
I took Friday as a vacation day as well, so I’m pretty stoked. I only have to get through tomorrow and I’ll be good to go.
I’ll have to share the week I’ve had at some point. It’s like old home week, and I’m pretty sure Paul’s party will only sock that home to me.
Only in my head, as this is completely not fair to Ben. It’s his birthday and he has to share with me. LOL.
I told him many, many years ago that we could break up for a few months and then get back together and change the date that way?
Ha ha. He didn’t like that idea either. Although I’ve been thinking about it since the end of February. That was when he asked me if he could sleep in my bed that night, and I was sick of sleeping alone so I said yes, with the add on that he had to keep his pants on.
Which he did. But a bit of making out happened in the morning. That time when you’re not even fully awake, but all you know is that someone is doing something nice to your neck? *blush*
We took it very slow for a bit, but then just dove in head first. People were angry, and I guess people had a right to be, but seeing as how we’ve lasted 7 years, I’d like to think it was meant to be and angry people can suck it. =)
This makes year number 7 for us, and I keep waiting to get bored, to get too annoyed, to start making little strikes against him in my head like I’ve done with so many boyfriends in the past. Yet I don’t get to that point.
I’m not sick of him, I feel like I’m in it for the long run at this point. We support each other, we laugh at each other and with each other, we have a very same sense and view of the world and raising a small child in this world. We don’t agree on music, most TV (besides Aqua Teen, but of course Aqua Teen is the awesome), and other things I’m sure.
We don’t always agree, but we always disagree kindly. Kind of. Sometimes I tell him he’s dumb, but I’m always teasing and he obviously isn’t dumb in any way.
In fact, he’s the smartest guy I know. Better at math then me even, which was hard for me at first, but I’ve become used to it.
He’s 29 today, and I keep teasing him about that, it’s easy to do when I’m the younger one.
I guess what I’m really saying is that he’s a keeper and when I think about all the guys I thought I really liked, I’m very happy that I ended up with one who I didn’t even know I liked "that way".
Plus the sex part. That’s good too. LOL.
Actually, I always wonder about that cause someone told me once that you get used to the feel of another person’s body and after awhile it doesn’t feel as good.
Which is a lie in our case. Perhaps I’m just lucky?
And I really like that we seem to have the same libido. Neither of us feels like they aren’t getting enough. I’d average us about every two days, and it seems to work out pretty damn well, if I do say so myself.
Ok, enough with the TMI.
Happy Birthday baby, even though you won’t read this (we don’t agree about MySpace either..LOL), I want to scream it out loud to the world.
We have plans to have dinner on Saturday at the Mission (our favorite Mexican place) and then waddle (SO MUCH FOOD) our way to Paul’s birthday party.
I took Friday as a vacation day as well, so I’m pretty stoked. I only have to get through tomorrow and I’ll be good to go.
I’ll have to share the week I’ve had at some point. It’s like old home week, and I’m pretty sure Paul’s party will only sock that home to me.
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